Confidence Coaching

Building a movement towards a world where every face is celebrated as a symbol of individuality, strength, and joy.

Turning differences into confidences through coaching and more!

Meet your coach

Iva Ballou

Iva Ballou is a motivational speaker, CEO, and founder of RealSophisticatedJoy.

Having grown up with a bilateral cleft palate, she always had someone speaking for her or she was expected to fit into a particular box. So, Iva spent her early adult life, breaking out of that box and finding her voice, her joy.

She now shares that gift with other women. She is a Motivational Speaker, Cleft Confidence Coach, and a facial difference advocate who uses her gifts to increase awareness and education for the facial difference community. She is also a co-host of the Love Meets Joy podcast. In this honest and empowering series, she discusses her personal journey and all things cleft.

Through finding her RealSophisticatedJoy, she now empowers others to pivot from shame to confidence in their journey.

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I help young women aged 16-40, who struggle with anxiety, depression, and lack of confidence due to feeling different, find inner strength and embrace their uniqueness through personalized coaching and advocacy, empowering them to cultivate self-love, resilience, and authentic joy in their lives.

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I believe in:

  • Empowerment Through Authenticity
  • Inclusive Advocacy and Support
  • Resilience and Self-Confidence Building

Realsophisticatedjoy

Founded five years ago, Realsophisticatedjoy is known for their aim to raise awareness, promote inclusivity, provide support, advocate for change, and celebrate the rich tapestry of human diversity.


With a strong presence in the facial difference community, the company, and especially Iva, has achieved notable success in spreading confidence, acceptance and joy in the lives of those who need it.

ready to level up your confidence?

Let’s work

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realsophisticatedjoy@gmail.com

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Realsophisticatedjoy is the physical evidence of one’s highest level of happiness. Unwavering joy!